For the Love of Ray J Season 2

Here were go again! Another season of girls embarassing themselves for a chance to become R&B singer Ray J's main squeeze. The show isn't as bad as the other VH1 hit "Real Chance of Love," but the premise is pretty much the same.

The show has of course beautiful girls with hot bodies, who are lacking brain cells. Not to seem too harsh, but there are some smart and sophisticated girls on the show. Unfortuantely, these girls don't last too long on the show.

Monday nite was the season premiere for the show. This time Ray J says he's not looking for a girl who is the most fun in the house, but the one who is the best for him. Yea, and i'm sure his leading lady will have a pair of DD boobs as well.

If nothing else,. i'm sure the show will be just as entertaining as it was last season.

Go to http://www.vh1.com/ to watch clips from the show

Sex on the First Date: Good or Bad

One of my favorite talk shows, the Tyra Banks show, was having a heated discussion on a topic that I previously touched upon. Is having sex on the first date good or bad?
My personally view is that there isn't anything wrong with it. People are sexual beings, and there is nothing wrong with embracing that. Women may be afraid to embrace that side of them because of the old double standards.
On the Tyra Show, her team of proffessionals give their advice about the topic.

"It depends on what you want. If that is what you want it to be, then sure go ahead...If you're intimate with someone early and it is really great, you are going to have to get past that to really get to know the person. If it is really bad or awkward, you may never get past it to discover who the person really is."
                                                                                     -Dr. Gary

"Don't be ashamed if you find yourself in bed the next morning. Too often we don't embrace that we have innate sexual desires which are affected by old ideas about how we are "supposed" to act. In turn, we feel badly about ourselves and our decisions, and we shouldn't."
                                                                              -Logan Levkoff, M.S., Sexologist & Relationship Expert

Obvioulsy there is no clear answer, ultimately the decision is up to you.

To read more go to http://www.tyrashow.warnerbros.com/

What to expect when meeting a guy at....

A few days ago a bunch of my friends were talking about, what else, relationships. One of my male friends made this bold statement, "Girls should know what to expect when they meet guys at clubs... assholes!"

It was hard to agree or disagree with what he was saying, however it did make sense. Generally guys you meet at clubs are out going, sociable, flirty, and just want to have a good time. So what usually ends up happening is he's a jerk and never calls you again after that nite.

On the other hand, try meeting a guy at some place like the bookstore or a library. They're usually intelligent, sometimes quiet, friendly guys.

Going out to a club with the intentions of meeting Mr. Right isn't exactly the brightest idea. Going to other places that interest you like a bookstore, music store, or the gym is your best bet at finding someone who is closest to your match.

10 Ways to Say I Love You (Without Saying a Word)

I came across this funny website that is strictly for guys. On the website http://www.dumblittleman.com/ (I swear thats the actual name of the page) It gives tips for guys who aren't the romantic type. The best article that I came acros was 10 Ways to say I Love You.
These are 3 of my favorite tips from the article.
1. Leave Notes in Unusual Places- For guys that might seem kind of a stupid thing to do, but I actually
 think its really sweet!! Even if  you don't leave a note, a nice text message saying "Hi" does the same thing.
2. Do the Chores Without Even Being Asked- This is probably the BIGGEST tip. No girl wants a sloppy boyfriend. Doing this gesture will probably get you major points with your girl.
3. Make a Special Meal- Im sure in college everbody gets tired of the same fast food or Ramen Noodles diet. Taking the time out to make a meal for your girl shows that you are considerate and thoughtful, just what every girl needs

Going Home For the Holidays

Now that its coming close to the holiday season, here's a problem that may occur for couples who are in college. So, you're in college and you have a boyfriend or girlfriend, and you guys are from different towns. For example your family is in Miami, but your guy's parents live in Tampa. Which house do you go visit for the holidays?

Usually the girl wants her boyfriend to come visit her family. However, that isn't exactly fair to your boyfriend either. It is important for each person in the relationship to compromise with one another. The best way to do this is to split the holidays. Maybe go your house for Thanksgiving and his house for Christmas, or vice versa

"It isn't important as to where you spend your holidays with, what is important is who you spend it with."

Whats your definition of cheating?

Today, relationships seem to be more complicated now than ever before. Now, it seems the definition of cheating has changed as well. So what exactly is considered cheating? Does flirting or dating someone other than your boyfriend count as cheating?
It seems that the unversal answer for the definition of cheating being anything that you would do with significant other you do with another person. In open relationships these boundaries are more lenient. But for exclusive relationships, these boundaries are not to be crossed.
No matter what your definition is, cheating is wrong, and you shouldn't do it, especially if you're hurting the other person. If you're doing something that makes you wonder, "Is this cheating?" then it probably is...

Adventures in Dating: Alternatives to the original date night

Tired of the same old dinner and a movie date? Well there are other dating activities that are inexnpensive and fun in South Florida. Here are some dating activities that come highly recommended by South Florida residents.
The Miami Sea Aquarium Located in the beautiful city of Miami. The Miami Aquarium lets you experience the underwater world first hand. The Miami Sea Aquarium even offers you the chance to swim with dolphins! Tickets for general admission for adults is $35.

For information visit http://www.miamiseaquarium.com/

Boomers Fun Park A great place for a date is the fun and exciting Boomers fun park located in Boca Raton and Dania Beach. Boomers has activities such as mini-golf, go kart racing, laser tag, rock climbing and bowling. Also not to mention a huge video arcade room. Prices for games and activities vary.

Visit http://www.boomersparks.com/ for information about the park and to print out coupons








Las Olas Boulevard If you're in the Fort Lauderdale area visted the beautiful white sand beaches of Las Olas. There are a range of shopping stores, restaurants, and even tatoo shops?!? This would make for a more relaxing date.