Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Just Between Friends: Is it okay to hook up on with your ex's friend??

In high school, there was an unwritten rule that you never hook up with one of your ex-boyfriend's or girlfriend's friends. It was pretty easy to abide by the rule in high school. Everyone played it safe just so there wouldn't be any tension amongst friends. But, when you go to college, where your personal is actually personal, do the same rules apply?

There are very few actual relationships in college, just hook ups or friends with benefits. So the rule shouldn't necessarily apply, however things tend to get messy if your ex hook up buddy finds out. Whether you decide to hook with your ex's friend or not, you should enter each situation with precaution. If the two of you are merely just having sex with no strings attached then there isn't anything wrong with that. Do reminder to be careful. It is possible for emotional feelings to occur. If this does happen, it is best to talk with your partner. If you're too sure about what to do in situation like this, the website http://www.hookingupsmart.com/ gives great tips about how to handle this and other dating issues.

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