Thursday, October 1, 2009

Let's go Dutch: Who pays for the bill on dates?


After a romantic dinner or movie date with your new guy, comes an awkward moment... the waiter brings the check. Your date looks at you, you look at your date. Are you suppose to be old fashioned and let the gentleman pay, or do you consider yourself a modern woman and decide to take care of it. For the first date, it is a nice gesture for the guy to pay for the date. Its shows that he is a man and can take care of things which is important to girls. If he makes you pay for the first date, things just go down hill from there. If you pay for the first date, your probably going to paying for a lot more things in the future. But, as you goes go out more and more, its not a bad idea for the girl to start paying for dates here and there. Not for the guy to take total advantage of you and make you pay for everything, but just here and there. When a woman pays for a date it shows independence. Most of the guy friends I know think it is attractive. Or if you 're a girl who has a problem paying for an entire date, pay for your half. In today's economy, it is hard for a guy to pay for everything. So make a nice gesture, and go halfies!!! It wheill better your relationship in the future.

1 comment:

  1. Shouldn't just be one person taking the respnsibilities to pay for everything. Men should be willing to allow women to pay sometimes and women should not expect a man to pay all the time.

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